When I tell people about the Facing Project, they often say, “Oh, it’s like an oral history project.”
“Sure,” I say, not really knowing exactly what an oral history project is. Well instead of continuing not to know J.R., my co-founder of the project, and I are taking it upon ourselves to learn about the tradition and execution of oral histories.
So I’m reading Studs Terkel’s autobiography, Touch and Go. Terkel won a Pulitzer for his book The Good War, which is an oral history of World War Two.
He was in his 90s when he wrote Touch and Go and so far it’s filled with rambling references of people and topics that I’m not familiar with, but I’m enjoying his philosophy of writing about…
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Hanging with Jama in 2012.
I volunteer on the planning committee of the Midwest Writers Workshop in Muncie, Indiana. I met the magnificent agent, Caren (Johnson) Estesen, who sold WEARING to Wiley at the conference in 2007. Now I enjoy helping other writers on their writing journeys.
I’ve keynoted at the conference, led breakout sessions, moderated panels, and in general done whatever Jama, the director, has asked me to do. But this marks the first year that I’m leading an intensive session during Part I of the conference. I’m really pumped!
The MWW blog interviewed me about the intensive. (And when I say they I mean that I interviewed myself.)
In the interview I declare I’m jealous of…
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These aren’t parenting strategies. Parenting strategies to me are like fad-diets. Raise your kids like Europeans! Raise your kids like Chinese! Raise your kids like cavemen! However you raise your kids, you will succeed and fail. Just love them and stop telling everyone else how to raise their kids.
Anyhow, I’ve been a parent now for 5 1/2 years, so this isn’t to say that I know much of anything about parenting at this point. Years from now, we’ll let the therapists decide that. These are more my thoughts on how I feel as a parent:
#1 Kids give you less time to change the world, but more of a reason.
I’m fortunate that my work reaches people and hopefully changes the way they…
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Do you ever listen to the radio and wonder if the person speaking is naked?
Well, apparently I do because I went out of my way to tell the listeners of this hour-long interview on Lehigh Valley’s NPR station that I was, in fact, not naked.
Do you ever say dumb things? I do…like constantly.
For the most part, I managed to not make a complete fool of myself. Regardless, I’m really looking forward to speaking, on stage, wearing clothes, at NCC’s 4th Annual Peace & Justice Conference next week.
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I’ve been working out at The Arsenal, Muncie’s only CrossFit gym. since July. After nine months this is my snatch lift (wide grip, from ground to overhead). It’s come along way, but still has a lot of work. I bend my elbows too early, and I don’t get under the bar enough.
This morning, starting at 6 AM, we completed 6 rounds of 2 reps. I matched my personal record of 105 lbs. I was hoping for 115 lbs. This is what I like about CrossFit. Your technique and strengths are measurable. In that way it’s not like writing at all. I can’t quantify my writing to see improvement. I believe that my writing continually improves…
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I’m speaking all over the place this spring — east coast, west coast, and middle coast! If I’m in your neighborhood, come see me or meet me for a fair trade coffee or whatever.
I’m looking forward to criss-crossing the country several times to share the stories of the folks I’ve met on my travels. If you’re interested in having me speak to your conference, university, school, or event, check out my speaking page.
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I’ve spent roughly 37 days (that’s 24 hours X 37 days, or 888 hours) of my life since Disney’s Frozen came out performing the songs from the movie. You see, I have a five year old daughter, Harper.
Sometimes we pick individual songs from Frozen and just dance and sing. Other times we play the soundtrack from start to finish and act out the parts. I don’t mean to brag, but my rendition of “Do you Want to Build a Snowman” literally moved Harper to tears. (Dear Broadway producers, I’m available when you get to casting the musical.)
In honor of Harper’s love for all things Frozen, I’m posting two performance of Idina Menzel singing “Let it Go.” The first is her recent performance with Jimmy Fallon and the Roots on…
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I married my Homecoming date, Annie.
This despite the fact that I wore a sweater vest to the Homecoming dance and that we dated for 11 years before getting married. That’s right…11 years! That’s totally a record, and one that I might add, I came very close to not achieving.
Each year I get invited to speak at 20 to 30 universities across the country about my travels and my books, which are regularly selected as the common reading books that all incoming freshmen are supposed to read. And each year there is one question that freshmen women who are still with their high school boyfriends want me to answer:
“How did Annie put up with you?”
Only Annie can truly answer that question, but this…
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We thought the hermit crab that our four-year-old daughter, Harper, got for Christmas was dead. But then he went missing.
“Did you move the crab?” Annie, my wife, asked me last night at 2AM.
“No.”
“He’s not in the dish!” Annie said. 
Our house is for sale and anything that isn’t necessary needs to go. A hermit crab habitat complete with “I’m crabby” sign was taking up a chunk of our kitchen counter. And since the crab that lived in there didn’t seem to be moving, drinking, or eating, and by all appearances was dead, the habitat had to go. Annie had already had the, “your crab is dead,” talk with Harper, which ended in tears, but for some reason Annie didn’t make…
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Fifteen years ago if you would’ve told me I would settle down in Muncie, Indiana, I would’ve done a spit-take. I was going to live somewhere with mountains or oceans or, more than likely, both.
Over the decade that Annie and I dated, I tried to convince her to move to the Florida Keys and Hawaii. I tried to convince her to put her life in a backpack and hit the road with me. I followed her to North Carolina where we lived for two years. She worked as a nanny. I worked retail at an outdoor equipment store (think backpack and tents) and as a SCUBA instructor. I also wrote and got paid tens of dollars per month for my writing. While we…
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